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I don't remember what made me search through my closet so frantically on that dark day. Maybe it was receiving that invite to a black-tie wake. Maybe I was a little unstable because I was still worried about Jennifer Aniston's adjustment to life after Brad. All I remember is the bed was piled a foot high with clothes and I was still standing there nude, flabby and teary.

This happens to me every so often. Sometimes I want to try a new look. I feel the need to show up at the town pool in something other than my husband's pit-stained tee shirt.

Maybe it's my mid-life crisis. I'm milking it for all it's worth. I'm panicked because this is my last chance to look passably hot, as long as I'm not seen in direct sunlight. I think it might be time to, gulp, go shopping again.

With my limited means and my lack of a need for couture, I figured the Gap would have something for me. I mean, I'm not completely geriatric yet. But when I walked through the hallowed doors I realized immediately that I am what trend watchers call "a Late Adapter."

I was seeing way more teenage butt crack and thong than I ever wanted to see. Criminy, I remember the days when "I see London I see France I see someone's underpants!" sung at you meant agonizing social death.

Then I noticed the tube tops. The Edsel of the fashion world. I thought they mercifully died off back around the time that guy from Saturday Night Fever jumped off the Verrazano Narrows Bridge. Good Lord, me in a tube top! Do they have any with underwire and hydraulics built in?

I found some employees who graciously took time off from their grueling "OMIGAWD" practice to help me out. I managed to find some jeans and when I paid for them they threw in a promotional Madonna/Missy Elliot CD. As if either of them actually shop in the Gap.

Women who are around my age remember all these funky fashions from the first time around. We could pull it off when we were seventeen and had stomachs so flat you could balance a bottle of Michelob on them.

The things I could get away with! I could go braless without the National Guard being called in and mothers covering the eyes of their children.

I could wear cut-off shorts, cowboy boots and a cowboy hat to an Outlaws concert and no one even pointed and laughed.

Feeling depressed and decrepit, and not wanting to admit I could not name even one Missy Elliot song, I shuffled home.

It doesn't help that us stay-at-home moms tend to let ourselves go. We think ‘Oh, who's going to see me, anyway? Another Cinnabon? Why the hell not?'

It starts with the baseball cap over dirty hair. The next thing you know you're dropping off your kid at school with stubbly legs poking out of safety-pinned shorts (the button popped), wearing a tee-shirt decorated with toothpaste dribbles. It's makeover time.

But TV makeovers are completely impractical. The outfits they put on these agreeable souls are great if your work involves holding up the number cards between fight rounds, but I'm not putting on anything that requires whale-bone foundation garments just to volunteer in the school library.

I keep holding on to the fantasy that I'm going to collect a really chic, modular wardrobe I can wear everyday. I'll bring home the nifty blouse and the funky bag, but by the next week I'm back to looking like a panhandler because I tend to buy things that go with nothing I already have.

Every time I flip through my closet I wonder what could possibly have been going through my mind that would make my buy sequined purple suede stilettos. When it comes to making fashion decisions, I'm as flummoxed as Keanu Reeves taking his GMATs.

Here's what would truly simplify my life: Gar-animals for grownups. Do you remember that children's clothes concept from the seventies? Colorblind mothers would match a lion bottom with a lion top et voila! Instant Little Lord Fauntleroy! I need that now. But the matching tag symbols would have to change for adult clothes, I guess. F'rinstance, don't match a Dirty Martini to a Cosmopolitan or a Diaphragm to a Depo-Provera or you'll be featured in the Fashion Police section of Us magazine.

I suppose I'm just too lazy to spend that much time thinking about my clothes. I'm not willing to put in the research. When I pick up a fashion mag to see what the New Black will be I suddenly develop adult ADD. There's just too much to focus on and I wind up skipping around from page to page like an Evelyn Wood graduate on crank.

I don't have much of an eye for the cheap knockoff either. I'm not one of those people who can grab the raspberry beret and the vintage jacket and pull off A Look. I would appear about as spontaneous and natural as Dick Cheney in a tie-dyed shirt.

Still searching, I passed by the shops catering to Juniors featuring naughty tee-shirts. I can just see me at a little league game with SLUT spelled out in rhinestones across my boobs. (In my day everybody knew who the sluts were; you didn't have to advertise). (Oh my God, I've started saying ‘in my day').

Am I to be confined to the LL Bean catalog and Sears for the rest of my life? Or dare I say it, Chadwick's? Are capris as daring as I can get now? Woooo.

So what is everyone else wearing? At school pick-up time we all check each other out, but in a very non-incriminating way. We're just desperate for ideas. Complimenting shoes always works.

"Cute slides."

"Thanks. Only $14.99 at Target."

"Really? I have to get over there."

At first glance we all wear the jeans/t-shirt uniform or some version thereof, but you have to look closer to pick up some subtleties. Sometimes these tiny differences are very revealing. For example:

Professionally done highlights: Husband is in banking

Home dye-job: Husband is in the art

Tight tee-shirt: Showing off new boob job

Baggy tee-shirt: Scarfed too many munchkins at the class party

Ponytail: Dirty hair

Smelly gym clothes: Has two hours to herself in the mornings now that the baby's in preschool

New, shiny gym clothes: Either just joined the gym because she found out husband is cheating or it's January 2nd.

Leggings: New mother

Easy-Fit jeans: Four months pregnant

Lipstick: Has a parent-teacher conference

Perfect makeup: Has full-time help

Jeans in August: Spider veins

Toe Ring: Aging hippie chick

Headband: Aging Kappa

Big smile: First day of sleepaway camp

New earrings: Husband's office holiday party

Manicure: Bunco player

Pedicure: Has a podiatrist appointment

Waxed legs and bikini area: Is going to be induced that evening

That was fun. But I still don't have anything to wear. Oh, the hell with it. I'll throw on my new rhinestone SLUT tee-shirt and low-rider jeans and let it all hang out. Seeing as that's the look, I'll probably be less conspicuous that way. Anything is better than L.L.Bean duck boots.

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